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Sunday, November 18, 2012

Double blessings

My cousin's daughter is about to give birth to twin girls. They have a small apartment with two bedrooms. One of the bedrooms will be the home to the new babies and their three-year-old big sister.


So many blessings. "Double blessings" as a friend of mine would say.


My prayer for these soon-to-be-born-girls and their sister is that they will always know how loved and cherished they are; that they will understand that they are God's gift. 


Oh, that we would all understand this. 



“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
 your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place,
 when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.

Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them!

Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand …”  - Psalm 139: 13-18

Monday, November 12, 2012

Why summer weddings cost less


The wedding we styled on Saturday went better than I had hoped for. This was the first time we had two venues to style; the ceremony and reception were in separate locations. To make it even more complicated, we only had two hours to set up the reception as there was another wedding reception right before ours. The timing was a huge challenge and required a lot of extra planning and organization beforehand and a crew that could follow directions and work fast. (They did!)


The ceremony was held in a beautiful white chapel that was the perfect backdrop for simple flower arrangements, like the urns filled with Lisianthus and Stock.


We bring a lot of furniture and decor to our weddings and setting up can be quite time consuming. For this wedding, the ceremony started at 4:00 and we could not start setting up the reception until 4:00 (there was a event prior to ours). We knew the guests would be arriving at the reception venue for cocktails as soon as the wedding was over and for obvious reasons, we could not remove the flowers from the wedding chapel until all the guests were gone. It didn't seem possible to use the same flowers for both venues, at least not at the country club entrance and staircase that the guests would see when they first arrived. 


And so when we were planning the flower arrangements we told the client we would need to purchase enough flowers for each venue. It was not logistically possible to get the flowers from the chapel to the reception before the guests arrived. I gave the bride and her mother a "ballpark" flower budget based on the last three weddings we styled.

But when we got to the flower mart, we quickly discovered that SUMMER FLOWER PRICES ARE NOT THE SAME AS WINTER PRICES. Summer flower prices are lower than the rest of the year, something I did not know. Hydrangeas which just a month ago were $1 a stem are now $2 a stem. Twice the price. And so with my flower budget cut in half I had to re-group and make some adjustments in both the kind of flowers I purchased and also how and where we would use them.


Instead of using bunches of Hydrangea like I had planned, the large urns for the ceremony were filled with bunches of Lisianthus and Stock which were quite a bit less expensive. Stock is a very inexpensive flower that comes in several beautiful colors and when fresh, they give off a lovely clove-like scent. But their "shelf" life is very short and you have to change the water often as it can get quite smelly so they are not always ideal to use for a wedding. Luckily these were as fresh as could be and worked perfectly. 


Just inside the entry doors was a small foyer and behind the doors a charming chapel with beautiful wooden pews. A large ceramic urn with white Lisianthus greeted the guests.


We placed white orchids on both sides of the aisle. The orchids came with floral water tubes on each stem which we left on until an hour before the ceremony to keep the flowers as fresh as possible. We would be using these same flowers later at the reception to line the winding staircase leading to the ballroom.

 Below you see the same urn from the chapel foyer on the reception check-in table.

blurry iPhone photos snapped in haste

The urn and pedestal from the chapel are re-used at the Country Club entrance:


How did we do it? We had three separate crew members waiting at the chapel for the wedding to end. One picked up the aisle flowers as soon as the guests walked out and rushed them back to us waiting at the country club. We quickly tied them on the staircase. Another crew member was in charge of just the flowers at the entrance of the church and brought those to us a soon as was possible. Those were placed at the country club entrance minutes before the guests arrived. The final group picked up what was left after the photographer finished taking the photos of the wedding party up in the front of the chapel and brought the last two arrangements to us literally minutes before our deadline. We placed them, took a few photographs and slipped out the back. We left at 6:05.

Come back later in the week to see the full wedding post. Happy Monday everyone!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Life is beautiful




 Thank you! Everything in me says “Thank you!”
    
Angels listen as I sing my thanks.

I kneel in worship facing your holy temple
    and say it again: “Thank you!”
Thank you for your love,
    thank you for your faithfulness;
Most holy is your name,
    most holy is your Word.
The moment I called out, you stepped in;
    you made my life large with strength.

(Psalm 138: 1-3 The Message)



Saturday, November 10, 2012

If I tweeted...

 This is what I would tweet.  6:30 AM ...


Happy Wedding Day, Kaley & Austin!

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Setting up for a wedding

There is so much left to do for the wedding this weekend, but I made a little progress today. 


The table numbers are framed ...


This wedding is following another wedding and because of that we have limited time to set-up;  I have to be even more organized then I am normally.


We like to personalize our weddings by bringing in lots of photos of the couple and quotes that are special to them ...


And I like to "set up" the different areas we are styling to visualize how it will look at the wedding.


We have a large amount of wedding props in storage and for each new wedding we seem to pick up a few new things. This wedding I am using a few things from my own home like the mercury glass lamp with the black shade. It will look great on the check-in table.


I picked up this lamp (and a matching one) a few weeks ago at HomeGoods. It was a brand new HomeGoods out of my area; I was there shopping for the medical clinic. I spotted them as they were being wheeled out of the back room. They were only $49 each and I couldn't let them pass by; I knew I would be able to use them for a client. 

Somehow they ended up in my house ... I know, I'm weak and soooo easily tempted!


But don't they look so nice?

Monday, November 5, 2012

A few great images ...

This is a busy week for me ... we have the wedding this weekend (vases to paint, photographs to frame, seat assignments and table numbers to put together ...), I have a few houses under construction which always requires extra flexibility in my schedule to be available for support / decisions / etc.,  and a few miscellaneous projects just to keep me on my toes. It is great to be busy - I am not complaining but I have to say I was grateful for the extra hour yesterday. It seems lately Sundays are spent catching up and preparing for the work week to come. So much for resting!

Marcus Hay | Photography: Jonny Valiant


I have spent my fair share of time online searching for inspiration and ideas for various projects and thought I would share a few images that spoke to me. 

via | Designer: Karla Amadatsu, Kerrisdale Design   | Photography: Janis Nicolay


You know how I love a neutral palette that allows a pop of color at my whim ...

Nancy Evars Design via

These would suit me quite nicely! 

Are you ready for your week? I hope you have a great start .... Happy Monday everyone!

Sunday, November 4, 2012

The wolves

An old Cherokee told his grandson,
"My son, there is a battle
between two wolves inside us all.

One is Evil. It is anger, jealousy,
greed, resentment, inferiority,
lies and ego. The other is Good.
It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility,
kindness, empathy, & truth."

The boy thought about it, and
asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?"

The old man quietly replied,
"The one you feed."

                             - author unknown



"Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
for they shall be satisfied."
- Matthew 5:6